A voicehearer’s path ~

Sarcasm ~

sarcasmI have heard it said that sarcasm is a low form of humor. Actually, it is and it isn’t, it takes a bit of sophistication to get into a sarcastic frame of mind, but it also takes thinking you are better than those at whom you aim your sarcasm. The sad thing about this form of humor is that it always aims to destroy something in the other person. Most of the time, it is aimed at the heart, at the feelings of the goat at which the arrow is pointed. For those who care nothing for the heart of others, this is not a problem.

Sarcasm can indeed be used to good purpose, and it is not my job to tell you when and garfield10where to utilize it’s capacity to sting. But, one must be careful, I have been guilty of using this weapon without thinking and virtually bringing someone to their knees. I will not say they did not have it coming, I did not even apologize when I realized how deeply I had stung this person, but I will tell you that when you are considered one who listens to Spirit, you might want to be careful when and whom you wound, for with sarcasm, you will always wound unless the other person is so on their guard, you couldn’t get to them without the use of a handgun.

I will say that the person I so  wounded was in the habit of using not only deeply sarcastic humor toward all in her path, she was inclined to throw herself at any man within range. I had hinted more than once that she had gone too far with others in our work group. She blithely ignored my warnings, so one day it just came out of my mouth, and the next thing I knew, she was on the floor weeping. I am not necessarily proud of that, I forget sometimes and those sorts of things will fly. I have tried for nearly 25 years, since I deeply peterlwounded a friend of good intent with a casual remark that I had not intended to be so wounding with. That remark nearly ruined our friendship. I have learned caution since that time, and still find myself wrestling with it occasionally. That is the danger of getting into the habit of thinking sarcastically.

I will repeat, it is a useful form of humor, especielly if you are working on one who thinks for some reason they are better than those around them, I am simply saying, be mindful of your tongue and pen , they are weapons in their own right. Just remember, the instructions from those we consider past masters, i.e., the Buddha and Y’shua, are to be kind.

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